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Do you choke under Pressure?

November 14, 20253 min read

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Do You Choke Under Pressure? Here’s Why It Happens and How to Stop It

Every athlete has experienced it at least once: You’ve trained hard, you know your routine, your body is capable… yet the moment competition pressure hits, everything feels tighter, slower, and harder.

This isn’t a skill issue.
It’s a brain issue.

When pressure rises, the brain switches from automatic execution to conscious control. Skills that normally run on autopilot suddenly feel clunky because the brain is trying to “help” by taking over. Instead of trusting muscle memory, you start micromanaging every tiny movement and then performance falls apart.

This is what we call choking.

But choking isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign the nervous system is overwhelmed.

Here’s why it happens — and how to train through it.


1. Pressure disrupts automatic performance

Athletic skills sit in motor memory.
They run best when the mind is quiet.

But pressure flips you into “survival mode.”
The brain becomes hyper-alert, scanning for mistakes, danger, or embarrassment. Suddenly, a skill you’ve done a thousand times becomes something you’re consciously trying to control.

Think of it like trying to type while staring at your fingers.
Slower. Harder. No rhythm.

The goal is to shift the body back into automatic mode.


2. The body reacts before the mind understands

When the nervous system senses threat even imagined threat, it fires adrenaline and tension.
Your breathing tightens.
Your muscles stiffen.
Your sense of timing shifts.

You’re not scared of the skill... you’re scared of the moment.

Helping athletes regulate their body (breath, muscles, posture) is just as important as fixing their thoughts.


3. A single focus cue resets the system

When athletes choke, they often try to think about everything:

  • technique

  • corrections

  • potential mistakes

  • outcomes

  • who’s watching

This overloads the brain.

Instead, choose one simple cue that brings attention away from fear and back into the body.

Examples:
“Tall.” “Calm.” “Explode.” “Drive.” “Stick.”

The cue must be:

  • short

  • physical

  • positive

  • relevant to the moment

One word can snap an athlete out of panic faster than a whole motivational speech.


4. Train confidence like a skill

Choking often happens when athletes haven’t practised pressure in training.

You can build familiarity through:

  • mini pressure drills

  • simulated competition

  • timed challenges

  • eyes-on-you moments

  • coping strategies rehearsed before competition

  • routines that stay the same every time

Confidence isn’t luck: It’s trained repetition under controlled stress.


5. Breathwork is the quickest way to regain control

When the body spirals, breath resets the nervous system instantly.

Try this simple tool:

Box Breathing
Breathe in for 4
Hold for 4
Out for 4
Hold for 4

Repeat for 3–4 cycles.
It lowers adrenaline and restores timing, rhythm, and clarity.


Final Thoughts

Choking doesn’t mean the athlete is failing, it means their brain needs support in recognising that the moment is safe.

When athletes learn how their nervous system works, how to regulate pressure, and how to lock into automatic mode, performance becomes freer, calmer, and far more consistent.

If your athlete struggles with mental blocks or pressure moments, the right psychological tools can change everything.

Train your mind like your future depends on it… because it does.

Jo-Anne Kelleher C.Psychol. is a Sport and High-Performance Psychologist based in Nottingham, UK. She helps ambitious athletes, entrepreneurs, and professionals transform mental blocks, fear, and ADHD challenges into focus, confidence, and sustainable success. Through her company, Key Aspirations Success, Jo empowers high achievers to train their minds like their future depends on it… because it does.

Jo-Anne Kelleher C.Psychol.

Jo-Anne Kelleher C.Psychol. is a Sport and High-Performance Psychologist based in Nottingham, UK. She helps ambitious athletes, entrepreneurs, and professionals transform mental blocks, fear, and ADHD challenges into focus, confidence, and sustainable success. Through her company, Key Aspirations Success, Jo empowers high achievers to train their minds like their future depends on it… because it does.

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